Who this is for: Men who are tired of dates that feel like interviews and want conversations she'll actually remember.
Read time: 6 minutes
What you'll walk away with: A conversation framework that helps you move past small talk and into the kind of connection that naturally builds attraction.
I'm Marta Skalon.
If you've been on a few first dates, you've probably noticed they all start sounding the same.
You ask where she's from. She asks what you do. You compare travel stories, favorite restaurants, maybe complain about dating apps for a few minutes, and before you know it the evening is over.
Nothing went wrong.
But nothing really happened either.
As a woman, I can tell you that the dates I've remembered the longest weren't the ones where the guy entertained me for three hours. They were the ones where the conversation unexpectedly became personal. Somewhere along the way I stopped feeling like I was meeting someone new and started feeling like I was talking to someone I'd known much longer.
That's exactly why I love these 36 questions.
They weren't created as a dating trick, and they're definitely not a script you're supposed to memorize. They're simply a different way of getting to know someone. When there's already mutual attraction, they often create the kind of chemistry that makes both of you lose track of time.
One of the biggest reasons dates lose momentum isn't because you weren't attractive enough. It's because the conversation never gave attraction anywhere to go.
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If you want to learn how to naturally create that kind of connection, that's exactly what we work on together.
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