You're a teacher and 5 students are sitting in a row:
Seat 1: Rahul | Seat 2: Priya | Seat 3: Amit | Seat 4: Neha | Seat 5: Sana
Now someone asks you: "Who is sitting next to Priya?"
You can answer easily because you can see the seating arrangement. You know the order — who is first, who is second, and so on.
Someone gives you 5 chits with names: Rahul, Priya, Amit, Neha, Sana.
But the chits are all mixed up in a bag. You have no idea who was sitting where.
Now can you answer "Who is next to Priya?" No! Because you lost the order information.
When a sentence like "The dog bit the man" enters a Transformer:
Without order, these two sentences look identical to the model:
Completely different meanings! But same words, same embeddings.